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Ross Jeffries - Speed Seduction Algorithm
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Approaching and making them interested
Say “Hello”; Give a Compliment; Ask for information
Comment about the situation you are both in (or music, painting, whether)
Request or offer assistance in doing something
Introduce your-self
Disclose some-thing about your-self; Express your feels about situation
Tell a joke: Get her laughing
Get her alone

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Lead (use Patterns)
Embedded Commands = Weasel Phrases + Command Verbs + Description of State
- focus her attention on your words
- Get her feeling secure, relax, trust
- Emotional Connection
- Get her imagination going horny
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focus in on those feelings
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Sexual metaphor
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feel it penetrate
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Age regression
Visualizations
Story-telling and metaphors
Linguistic double binds, use of suggestion (Three Level Stacking)
Disorientation / confusion
Sensory deprivation and/or sensory overload

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NOW"
- "DO THAT
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NOW"
- "WITH ME
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NOW"
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Closing will stall when you don't realise that you will
succeed with the close if you have witnessed 3 positive indicators
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If pressed for time, just #close
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Refreming of situation
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Negotion Pattern: "Your're right
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Stop Pattern:"Stop
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"Let me ask you something
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AS A FRIEND!"

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clothing, props, initiate an entertaining and interactive
conversation (that is what an OPENER is all about)
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Be confident
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Work out regularly
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confidence + humour + smile
well groomed / good looks
ability to create an emotional connection / a feeling of romance
being sensitive to how she feels/responds and modifying your approach accordingly
do not spend more than 10 minutes with any one girl if you have not been given any signal to keep
going
Seducer’s state of Mind:
1) Affirmations: Unstoppable Confidence
2) Good tonality: Breathing Exercises
3) Trigger: Special playful melody in mind + Zoom on part of her body + WOW!!! + Let’s have
some fun!!
4) Focus on your final outcome
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"Your mind is focused on your final
outcome; you go for what you want congruently and powerfully
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Approaching and making them interested
-Speak with good tonality, clearly, and deeply whenever you talk to a woman
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Wherever you are, don't wait for more then three seconds to begin
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It could be a book, something they are wearing, questions
about something that they MAY (not necessarily DO) have knowledge on, something we have in
common, whatever
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Ya Gotta Get 'Em To Stop!
VERBALLY PACE THE ONGOING SITUATION
"Look, I know this is a totally nutty way to meet someone (pacing her ongoing belief )
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a
truism with which she cannot argue) and maybe see how much WE COULD REALLY LIKE
EACH OTHER ( embedded suggestion )
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(pause a second or two for
effect
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what does he want to tell me?") I think you're
absolutely stunning
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(Pause again)
"My name's
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DON'T LET GO AFTERWARDS!!!
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To Take Control Of Her Internal Representations:
You could say something like, "You know, I can tell you are a woman with great taste!" And when
she says, "How do you know?" Respond, "Because you laugh at what I say
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When she
laughs at this, you say, "See
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To add to this you say, "Seriously
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As she sighs and says, "yeah" you say, "Well, see? So, as you think about it like that
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Excuse me, I don't mean to interrupt you while you are (whatever she is doing), but you look
exactly like
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somebody I would like to meet!"
My name is …"
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forgive the interruption
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Then I will pause
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it's a very rare and attractive combination
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"Damn
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How totally wonderful and unique and special too!"
Spot the woman you want to meet
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Then you say: "Pardon me miss
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" So far, sounds like a standard
pick-up ploy, right? Here's where you ad the twist
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I was reading a book on angels, and they had your picture
in it!" Now, this next part is critical
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My name is:_ _ _ _ _ _ _
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!
(The shy, sincere approach) Excuse me! I'm sorry to interrupt you here but I really wanted to meet
you and I'm willing to make a total fool of myself to do it! My name is
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forgive me for interrupting you here
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I'm willing to
make a total ass of myself, just to get a chance to meet you
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" She laughed and told
me her name and when I asked why she laughed she responded, "Because it's so uncommon
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cause you laugh at what I
say
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the more you'll recognize just how attractive you find
that
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" Step three(Work it
into a connection pattern) "In fact
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talking with you
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that
when you connect with someone
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someone you're really attracted to who
makes you feel that click
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you know that sense of just feeling totally drawn
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like you were meant to know them
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can you feel that
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oftentimes there's a strong element of fascination involved
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To get them Laughing:
"I wish I were a girl like you
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I see his face every morning, when I look in the
bathroom mirror
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and I were half as attractive as you are
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until I worked up the courage to ask myself out!"
"In fact, I don't know if you can recognize that with each little giggle
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with each beat of your heart
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just setting aside
whatever pictures just keep popping into your mind when I say that
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that when she feels a connection with someone
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and feel absolutely intrigued
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etc
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Anchor this by squeezing her hand and saying , "Can you FEEL THAT
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Next time you come in, fire off the anchor and ask her out!
"You Wanna See Something Really Cool About The Way Things Work Inside Your Mine?"
"Isn't it interesting how the mind works?" or "You know what I find really fascinating about places
like this?" + you then go on to slip in a "connection" pattern or even talk by talking about the
process of falling in love
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"Can I ask you a really interesting question?"
"Can You Remember The Last Time You
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"Do you have a quarter?" "Why?" "My mother told me to call her when I met the woman of my
dreams
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Oh, well
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Can I borrow yours?
"You have such beautiful blue eyes
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"What do you think of the weather lately
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"What's a nice woman like you doing in a place like
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"
"Do forgive me
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Please allow me to present myself
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) I'm sorry, you look like my friend Ciny Crawford
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Well you do have a beautiful smile,
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If not, PROVE IT!!
My name's [your name]
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Think of a number between 1 and 10 - You lose - take all your clothes off !
Excuse me, has anyone ever told you you're a shining example of physiological/genetic
perfection?"
Her response of course, was to laugh and say "Thank you
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Because although you
really are breathtaking, and I wanted to get a glimpse at the personality inside of the beauty before I
introduced myself
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"Hi
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Would you be so kind to hold this up in front of you for a moment? It's my sister's
birthday next week and you are about the same size as her and from what I can tell you have the
same excellent fashion sense
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"
Her curiosity bells just went DING
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Move into standard mirroring and rapport building techniques as you continue
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you're not
really happy, but not really sad either
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Then suddenly you find you
bump into somebody with an incredibly warm and beautiful smile that just makes you feel
wonderful for the rest of the day?"
She will almost surely smile more at this point, or give some degree of positive response
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Though, you know it would be a shame if
this is the last time I'll see that wonderful smile
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"What do you do?" "I'm a human being
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" "I'm the reincarnation of Albertus Magnus
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"

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Getting her to visualize
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Emotional connections
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Me: **Playfully** What do you like to do for fun? Do you have a lot of guys chasing you?
Her: No, not really
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Me: Really? I mean, I don't mean to sound strange or anything
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I guess mutual admiration
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that is an important one
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Her: Well
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And he expresses to me that there are things about me he really admires
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that's a powerful one
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a sense of humor
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Here's how you steer her back to values in the relationship when
this occurs:)
You: Well, I know that's an important quality for a person to have, but what does a
person's having a sense of humor allow you to experience that you wouldn't other
wise experience?
Note: This can be done after you've dropped the topic
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Say
something like:
You: You know
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And I think maybe it's something based on really enjoying each other's
company, mutual admiration, and trust
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as this is peaking reach over and touch her and as you do so you say:) Can
you FEEL THAT would be a really wonderful thing to experience?
Ask questions that get her to go inside & come back with values and criteria
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What she wants?
What she likes?
What she thinks she needs?
What she thinks she deserves?
What she had in the past that she wants to repeat?
What she had in the past that she wants to avoid?
What scares her?
What makes her happy?
What makes her feel sexy?

"What are the challenges in her line of work / what are the easy parts / what she likes / what she
doesn't like about her job?"
"What is the most unusual thing you've done when playing "truth or dare"?" Hopefully she comes
up with some sexual stuff:)
"What do you think I am like?" You'll get useful feedback on how you're doing and how she
perceives you:)
"Your first childhood memory?" If its positive, anchor it, and even if its just neutral, never mind
that, in her mind she sees herself as opening up to you when telling you about such stuff:)
"Your most pleasant / sweetest memory from school?" Hopefully has something to do with a guy,
anchor it:) If not, be more specific
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It's ok to talk about that stuff, and I
enjoy it
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So I was wondering what's
important to you in a relationship (or this class, or a friend, or…)?" Then listen to what she tells
you… Stick to what emotions she's experiencing & why and you'll never run out of things to talk
about
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And what's really
stimulating, is to learn what someone else thinks of major issues revolving around us in this
world… and discovering what's important for her in life
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If she replies with means values
(the means of achieving ends values - like a strong, brave man
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Find out, by asking, what she looks like when she agree's with something
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Find out, by asking, what she looks like
when she's nuetral about something
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(Means Value)
M: *nod* And what feeling does that allow you to experience when you are with a tall guy?
H: Well it makes me feel safe and protected (Ends Value aka Desired State)

Find out what she needs
A simple value-eliciting scheme (from an unknown source):
You: What's important to you in a relationship? A relationship, not qualities in a person
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x1
You: Yeah
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How do you know when you have x1?
Her: xxx (talking about x1)
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that's a powerful one
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xxx (talking about x2)
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You: Wow
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Well, what else is = important to you
in a relationship?
Her: x3
You: Yeah
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Her: xxx (talking about x3)
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xn (n being either 1, 2 or 3)
You: Well
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Of the other two, which is most important?
Her: xn (n being either 1, 2 or 3)
Step 3
About an hour+ later:
You: You know
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And I think it's something based on (x1, x2, and x3 in order of her preference she provided in
step 2)
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The eyes DO access
somewhere
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Your questions can't be the kind that can
be answered "off the top of the head without thinking", so they have to be surprising questions that
the subject must retrieve something to answer
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The series of innocent yes, yes, yes and
no, no, no questions it the basis for all mentalism and "cold readings" done by fortune tellers and
other cons
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To pass lie detector:
NLP strategy to accomplish this might be designed thus: Create a full VAKOG experience
internally & associate fully to it
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", "I feel excited when
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", "I feel good about
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So that if it were to be "I feel absolutely turned on when
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"
"Excuse me, I don't mean to interrupt you [drinking coffee / reading the newspaper / waiting for the
commuter / your train of thought], but I just wanted to tell you that I find you very attractive and
wanted to meet you
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Can you imagine that?"
PAY ATTENTION TO HOW SHE RESPONDS TO YOU!!!
Fluff talk - "where ya goin?", "whatcha doin?", "what did you do today/yesterday?"
DEMONSTRATING UNDERSTANDING, YOU INCREASE RAPPORT! Talking to her =
echoing her
In order for her to feel understood, you need to listen to what she says, rephrase it and feed it back
to her (it helps if you agree with whatever statement she made:)
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1) making her feel completely understood by you
2) and completely understanding her - which is what you need in order to know how to make her
feel the way she wants to feel with that special man of hers:)
Her: Why do you ask?
You: WellÅ as we are sitting here talkingÅ over coffeeÅ I thought it would be nice Å to get to
know youÅ as a personÅ I remember one girl (doesn't matter if you do or not:)Å I was in collegeÅ
it was like there was an almost magical bond connecting usÅ we would even finish each others
sentences
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Then selectively
edit or FABRICATE your existence to always fit the things that she told you HERSELF are
positive things and AVOID what she told you HERSELF are negative things
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Her favourite pastimes and hobbies can also be useful
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I would never say "I love cats myself too
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I let her derive who I am by telling her a story
based on what she wants to hear in the first place:)"
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Lead
Recall that
Pace, Pace,
Pace, Pace,
Pace, Lead
Lead, Lead,

the basic pattern for Pacing and Leading is:
Pace, Lead
Lead
Lead
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Humor, romance, humor, romance, sex talk, romance, humor, kino, sex talk, humor, sex talk, kino,
kino, kino, kino
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With women who want it to be their own experience, combining, body sensations, their own
personal trance words, vagueness and sexual metaphor is a knock-out combination!
the sexual metaphors("open yourself" "come deep inside") as well as the commands "experience
that" "let it happen"
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No problem, I said and just kept talkinggot her laughing, built that incredible connection, anchored peak experiences, zoomed her around
in space and time and this time I left her in that peak state while I ushered her back to my place
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if you can combine body sensations/emotional feelings/sexual stuff all at once, it completely
overloads and lights up her neurology to the point where she just can't resist it
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Focus her attention on you
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Create the state
• Put yourself in some of the feeling states you want to install in others!
• ****Have you ever
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Bind/link it to you
• Binder commands:
• "DO THAT
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WITH ME
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DO THAT
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Amplify
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Synethstesia
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Commands such as, "Feel it building
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surrender completely
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Sexual metaphor
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feel it penetrate
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"
"You know, when we go out, I don't know whether it will be an incredibly exciting adventure or
just a wonderfully fun time, but it sure is going to feel good to laugh alot, isn't it? When you think
about it like that, are you aware of how much more it makes you really look forward to doing it?"
Once she laughs, call attention to it by saying something like, "See
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It feels good
to laugh
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"The more you try to think of reasons why you can't, the more you realize just how much you
can!"
"The more you laugh the more you recognize how much fun it would be to spend time together,
NOW
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"
"Hi
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Are you available
for coffee or would lunch be better?"
Ask questions that get her to go inside & come back with values and criteria
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"I'm sure that you, like me, have had some really interesting experiences in your life
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If you
were to share a memory about one of your most interesting experiences, a person you met perhaps,
or a place you've been, or something you've learned that still holds a deep interest for you, what
would it be?"
Her: "I want a man who makes me feel comfortable with myself" (you remember "feel" and "
comfortable")
You: "Wouldn't it be nice if you could spend time with a man who makes you feel like you could
let down your guard and just be comfortable? Whose voice soothed and at the same time stimulated
you? I get the feeling that this could happen to you right now, with me
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QUOTE about what you
did to other chicks or what you want to do to other chicks or ask her about what she has done or
would like to do with other guys
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Can you believe that
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ie Have you ever
had a 1 night stand
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-Then I move on to the story of my drunk chick co-workers, who at a dinner party, we asked if they
ever did a 3p (3 person) sex, and one raised her hand
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etc)
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-Judge her reactions to the above story, this will tell you what she might/might not be interested in
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And when she mentions a feeling, elaborate on
it (the good feelings and how you like them, and the bad ones; how you hate it when that happens,
and how to feel YYY (good feeling) is much better
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-finish drinking
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I mean you know how you REMEMBER some dreams , and others you FORGET? It's
like when you constantly THINK ABOUT THIS PERSON , you conscious mind GOES DOWN
REAL DEEP into your subconscious and BRINGS BACK all these wonderful dreams about them
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"
Don't Let Your Feelings Determine What Your Vision Will Be!
(this Ross’s pattern is very good if girl is in bad mood)
Listen: recently I was talking with a friend who had been feeling down
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and she was asking me how I got through my bad times(which have been pretty bad
and desperate at times
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And it occurred to me that everyone has struggles; everyone
has difficulties, everyone has some real challenges
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Now
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I'm not saying to ignore the initial frustration you might
feel when you are first trying to fly and maybe tripping on your dick or falling on your ass
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We've all been there
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or even the confusion
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Let
me give you a hint about something; we live in a world where 99% of the population are controlled
by their feelings in the moment
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That means they have
little or no direction or motivation
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That means you can be a zillion times more successful than them in ANY area of
life if you can just get past this
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You see, sometimes, I think being "negative" can work
better in the boost phase of a project or an endeavor than being positive
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don't get me
wrong
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But as far as feelings go, sometimes what it
takes to get started is a STUBBORN refusal to accept things as they currently are
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As an example from my own life: when I was 19 years old, I was still absolutely terrified of life
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and this is really weird
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That I didn't care what happened to me while I did it or what I had to
go through but that I was either going to get over my fear of life or die in the attempt
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a strange feeling came over me
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of
knowing I had kicked over and triumphed over a boundary and barrier that had kept me
back! And I knew that everytime I fought that barrier
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I was
experiencing the power and joy of defining through brave(albeit not very effective) action how I
wanted to be
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since then I've developed and found MUCH better tools
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Which brings me
to another vital point
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Understand And Utilize The Value Of "Willingess" Vs
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Because when you relax into it you'll rocket through the learning curve
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You're not fighting yourself and things therefore flow much easier
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If you know some breathing disciplines or already know how to do altered state work of
some kind, go ahead and do it
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" As
you say that, literally visualize yourself rising above the ground and see the city beneath you,
containing all the limits and limited thinking(including what was once your own) down there
below
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this place where anything can be possible
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from THIS place, think about how you'd like things to
be and what answers you can find
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And carry
this place with you
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And the truth is this: it is
ONLY when you live from is place FIRST that your external reality will begin to reflect it
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State Accelerators
• Zip anchors
• Synethstesia
• Sub-modality shifts
• Commands such as, "Feel it building
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surrender completely
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"Create an opening for it
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come over and over again
to the same conclusion
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:
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I was reading the most interesting article about how men and women fall
in love differently
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I mean, you
know that kind of special connection you sometimes feel
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" You then go on to do the connection pattern for a while,
and say, "So
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that's when you can just
STOP
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say years from now
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and GROW even more attracted
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First, becomes aware
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the
beating of her heart
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such that as she continues to
be aware oll this
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so as
she just continue to keep looking
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and the
entire world becomes this face
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pulling her in
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just allowing that warmth
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etc
3
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what really fascinates me about all this is not just how people connect so
powerfully with someone
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like
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Here of
course, you launch into my famous "Blow Job Pattern"
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etc), touch her side waist, or shoulder, or back
with your hand, firmly
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This is authoritarian, and she will respect this, and
your authority
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-Every time you laugh, or say something, put your hand on her shoulder, or waist, or thigh, gently,
but authoritively
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"Can't hear you:)"
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Patterns
1) Initial fluff talk to establish some faint rapport
2) Patterns and tonality to establish deeper rapport
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She'll be feeling a lot by now, but she is probably
confused as to the nature of her feelings, so its time for step 3
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Some women who are already emotionally occupied, but sexually bored, or shut down emotionally,
but open sexually or just don't believe relationships are possible will still be very receptive to a
"body sensation" approach
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it's exponential!
A Peak Experience Pattern
You: "Can you remember the last time you had a peak experience? Like climbing a mountain
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or the first time you looked at someone (point to yourself, selfpointing, sp) and recognised YOU REALLY LOVE THIS PERSON (sp)
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"
You: "What was that like?"
Here you should shut up and let her describe it
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"That's really interesting
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a state where YOUR
MINd is so in touch with the MYSTERY and the WONDER and the beauty of life (point to
yourself, dumbshit!)
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Can you
FEEL THAT (reach out and touch anchor) is an incredible thing to experience+ WITH ME+ NOW,
I know that for a lot of people different things can trigger that
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yeah
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it's like your inside my soul
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And you know, for a lot of people falling in
love, or an orgasm are peak experiences, but for me, it's music
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like little pecks on the cheek, and with some of his stuff those
segments just GET LAID (whatever-your-name-was), from end to end, and keep getting repeated
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they're like long,
slow, lingering kisses
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TO ME+ NOW
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you know
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"I think most men might THINK they know, but I think almost every man makes one, huge, critical
mistake when it comes to women
...
)
"The mistake is that they don't recognize that in each woman their are actually TWO women
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The culturally programmed woman is the
one with all the rules and all the roles
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all the shouldn'ts,
shoulds, don'ts, can'ts, mustn'ts
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But the natural woman
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where you keep your most
exciting memories
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daydreams
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the things
you'd do if no one were watching and no one
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would ever, ever know
about
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But when a man
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can touch a woman in that special place in all those special ways you LONG to be touched
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then WOW
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and you start blossoming way beyond what you ever even thought possible
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waiting and
longing
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and yet they are
still there
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And each day, each moment of her lived, she
carried that love with her in her heart, waiting for the day when it could be released; released and
given to the one who was worthy
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What would it be like to realize that after all
the sorrow and tears
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and LISTEN to the message
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NOW
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TIME DISTORTION
So, as soon as they finish laughing you say, "Speaking to you as a person who loves to laugh
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Option one: "Won't it be great AFTER we've
gone out and laughed and felt really comfortable together? Then you can just look back at it all,
smile that smile of satisfaction, and think to yourself: that was one of the best times, I've ever had!"
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From Incredible Connection pattern To the Blow Job pattern
"You know, the other thing I think is so interesting, besides ***how we connect*** with each
other,
is ***how we connect*** with our own fantasies,daydreams and desires
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to put a woman into this mindset, you must structure your communication from start
to
finish to do at least two of the three following things
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Structure opportunities
2
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Elicit/evoke processes
By structure opportunities, I mean specifically offer something
SHE can intuit, perceive, or think of a benefit to HER
...
more on this when we discuss #2)
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You'll get to learn things
about
yourself your best friends don't know(opportunity), and I'll get to find out if you're the kind of
person I want
to know better
...
this is Bob
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I've learned
one
lesson, living in (insert your city or part of the country
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A
...
A!) L
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my
whole life,
and that's that beauty is common
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a great energy
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and they're worth working to get to know
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So if you can find your own reasons to call me, my number is 555-5512
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Close
You: "Well, Myname, it's really been fun talking to you
...
"
Her: (If she doesn't catch the hint, then before you leaveÅ)
You: "You know, I meant what I said about it being fun talking to you
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Like tomorrow?"
"I have to go, but I've really enjoyed this conversation, why don't you give me your number and we
can talk again"
Say "It's been a pleasure meeting you:)"
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Close #1: Why don't we continue this somewhere else and see how much we can enjoy each other's
company?
Close #2: It's too bad you're not the type of person who can imagine feeling and doing all the things
you love to feel and do
...
but as you think about it just like
that
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what steps would we have to take in order to make sure we can talk again?
Close #4: I have an intuition
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that when we
get a chance to talk without time pressures or interruptions
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and I'm wondering if there's a number where you feel comfortable having me call you
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Self-Defence
I never get rejected

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